Wondering if you have met your soul mate?
Life is a journey, and going it alone can be tough, so when you do find your soul mate, see it as the most precious gift that the universe could give you on your life’s path.
A soul mate isn’t there to fill the gaps in your life and complete you, they are there to support you on your journey to becoming whole.
Before we incarnated into this life, we made a soul contract with another person, or people that we would meet, and support each other along the way. Love doesn’t get more powerful that that does it!
It is often a partner, but it can also be a friend, family member or complete stranger you bump into on the street.
Soul mates are often complete opposites, interested in completely different things, and other times they are a complete reflection of each other, but when they come together in life, magic happens!!
Here’s how to know if you have found your soul mate……
1 – You were brought together by a force more powerful than yourselves. Soul mates connect on a soul level. When you met, it may have seemed that time moved slowly, and you couldn’t stop looking at each other. You had to start talking to each other, and couldn’t leave without knowing you were going to see each other again.
2 – Being together just feels good. Even when no words are spoken, it just feels good to be together. Everything is easier, and falls into place when you are together. The day from hell is soon forgotten when you can feel the energy of this person close to you again. Their energy heals you, as your energy heals them. You complement each other and you are equals in your relationship.
3 – You pick each other up when you fall. No matter how hard we try, there are always going to be times in our life when we lose motivation, and hope. We sometimes feel like giving up and falling down into a pile of self despair. “I can’t go on, it’s too hard” you proclaim. That’s when a soul mate steps in to lift you up. They give you hope it’s all going to be o.k. and they motivate you to keep going. It doesn’t mean you will never fight with one another…. egos will clash and that’s normal. When your fighting about whose turn it was to do the dishes, or who really won monopoly…see it as their ego that you are arguing with, not as who they are on a soul level.
4 – You’re in sync. It’s something you can’t quite put your finger on, but there is a powerful connection there. You text at the same time, you think of them and they call, or you know what they are going to say before they say it. You want as much happiness and success for them, as they do for you.
5 – They love you for who you REALLY are. Underneath the ego, when your true authentic self comes to the surface, that is when you connect on the highest level. When it’s just the two of you, you no longer need the makeup, jewellery, or egotistical traits…you can just relax in the knowledge that you are completely accepted by the other person. When you make the decision to do something that feels right for you, and everyone else is frowning at your choices, telling you to play it safe, your soul mate is the one that says ‘Go for it, you can do it!”. I love this one most of all!
If you haven’t found your soul mate yet, and you are feeling alone, don’t lose hope that you will.
If you are wondering why you are dating people who drain your energy, and who are obviously not your soul mate, think of it like this…
These experiences are building up that appreciation for what is coming, because IT WILL help you to know for certain when you have finally found the one.
And always remember that two souls that are destined to be together, will eventually a way to be together.
Love, and light,
P.S I would love to hear your story of how you met your soulmate please share, or if you haven’t found them yet, go ahead ask me any questions about how to find them below.